Missionary is a classic for a reason. But, the position has got a reputation for being a bit boring. In an effort to end that stigma, there are little things to do during missionary to make it better can spice up the position that makes the man to most of the work. These tips however, will shift some of that effort over to you. Eye-gazing, skin-on-skin, and grabbing a guy's butt to pull him deeper into you are some of the reasons to love missionary. But with all the joys it brings to women, it's also fair to wonder what men think about the missionary position.
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Let me say here and now, without shame or blush, that I like the missionary position. Making love while lying on my back with my husband on top is familiar and comfortable. It's the meat loaf and mashed potatoes of the sex manual. If you're hungry, it fills you up; If you're tired, you can still manage a morsel. Beluga caviar it ain't, but like a Quarter Pounder with cheese, you know how it's going to look, how it's going to taste, and how long it will take to eat. And if you want to make it fancy, you can always add fries and a salad. At one time, the missionary position was sex. As a kid, if I read about sex or glimpsed a love scene on TV before my parents switched channels, that was the position the couple was in — the man on top, the woman gazing up at him adoringly. But then came the '70s.
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A slightly modified missionary position, in which the receptive partner's legs are thrown over and supported by the penetrating partner's shoulders, is extraordinarily common among gay men I have known. It may qualify as the most common anal-sex position among a lot of gay men. I think that people vary in how they experience this position, though. Personally, if I'm bottoming, I often find the position allows for pressure on my prostate that I find uncomfortable - too stimulating, too intense. On the other hand, I know plenty of people, including a former partner of mine, who like the position
The first is to try to hold yourself up with your arms a bit more, perhaps by resting on your elbows instead of laying flat out on top of her. That way you can support much of your weight on your arms instead of on her. The other suggestion is to shift so that her legs are e I once did a test where a pound friend stood on my chest and it was surprising how easy it was. It depends on how the weight is spread out. So try the missionary position first of all to see how she feels.